Sorry to go public with this but you didn't give me your address. Thank you for your kind words about my writing. I hope Beginnings helps her. It's long since out of print but you can get a used copy through Amazon's network of used bookstores. The book costs a penny, plus the shipping ($6.59). I keep buying it for friends who are only now losing their husbands. (As you know my Bill died 43 years ago.) Bless.