have a merry

merry: ORIGIN Old English myrige‘pleasing, delightful,’ of Germanic origin; related to mirth.

merry throngs of studentscheerfulcheery, in high spirits, high-spirited, bright, sunny, smiling, lighthearted, buoyant, lively, carefree, without a care in the world, joyful, joyous, jolly,convivial, festive, mirthful, gleeful, happy, glad, laughing; informal chirpy; formal jocund; dated gay; literary blithe. ANTONYMS miserable.    [Online Dictionary]

Do you like any of those synonyms?  I quite like jocund.  Note there is only one antonym - miserable. I may not qualify for all of the synonyms of merry but I certainly am not miserable.  I know miserable, not to the depths of pain, hunger and despair of far too many people in the world, but some kind of miserable, more emotional than physical. I am truly blessed, and I know it.  Thank you!

blessed are the meekfavoredfortunate, lucky, privileged, enviable, happy. ANTONYMS wretched.

Favoured, yes (note the u in my Canadian spelling).  Favoured, fortunate and lucky. Again, thank you.

I am certainly not complaining. Years ago, fourscore, in fact, when I began to write essays at university, I used to look up every key word in an assignment and then use the synonyms as a guide to an outline of what I wanted to say about the subject at hand. I know of two writers who have used something like this approach. One was the poet and etymologist, John Ciardi (1916-1986), who had a regular column in (Saturday Review) that I loved; the other is the creative non-fiction writer, John McPhee, also a regular columnist (The New Yorker). I remember an article in which he illustrated the way he used the dictionary to provide him with apt phrases expressing what he wanted to say. 

Writing, it is said, maketh an exact man (woman). So does a dictionary, before the fact, and etymology helps.  

I'm still on merry.  Soon, my dear, extravagant family will be awake and we will begin our glorious, excessive consumption of this day. 

The holiest of all holidays are those
    Kept by ourselves in silence and apart
William Wordsworth

 

 

here we are

Happy Everything Everybody.  Matt and I flew to Boston this morning and here we are, basking in the love and noise and give-and-take and friendly chat of a loving family.  Heaven!   I've been tired and driven and nasty and put-upon so I need this therapy.

Not very enlightening.  But I brought my Little Mac with me so I could keep in touch. Little did I think that I would ever be so dependent on an electronic secretary. I just wish she wouldn't spell for me, deciding what I mean, putting words in my mouth - hard drive?  

I just received another rejection for my book on aging, not a welcome Christmas present. I have to think what to do next. Short of peddling sex tips or dressing up a monkey or doing something (auto-spell just changed that to soothing) something strange with a cat,  how does one go viral? 

Do you have any suggestions?  E-books, I guess.